Showing posts with label smart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label smart. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 12, 2015

All Greeks Do is Party {MythBusters}

One of the most common myths associated with Greek life is that all they do party. So often, people look past what all Greek life actually does and offers for those involved. On a college campus, joining sorority offers unparalleled opportunities for members to engage in all kinds of activities, including themed parties, theatrical productions, fundraisers, Homecoming Week, and so much more. Many students who decide to go Greek have a stronger presence on campus, participate in more leadership opportunities, and build a deeper commitment to public service than their classmates.

All partying and no intelligence is a common stereotype associated with Greek life. One thing to keep in mind is how sororities focus on academic success. Functions like mixers, date parties, and formals are not parties that are required or forced upon members, but are awarded to those who demonstrate good academic standing. All sororities have a GPA requirement, and plenty of opportunities to help each member achieve this goal. The Greek community offers study groups and tutoring times as a whole, as well as each individual chapter hosts study hours to assist members in their academic achievement. In fact, sorority members generally have higher grades and better retention rates.

85% of Fortune 500 executives were part of Greek life. The first female astronaut was Greek, so was the first female senator, and college graduation rates are 20% higher among Greeks than non-Greeks. WOW!! Some of the most intelligent and successful people are Greek. Not to mention there is a higher percentage of Greek than non Greek residing in our Student Government Association today!

Being involved in a sorority for 3 years now I have seen just how much Greek functions can benefit the campus and community. I realize from an outsider looking in it seems as if these parties are only hosted for entertainment and fun, but they offer so much more. A lot parties hosted by Greek life are to benefit a philanthropy.  According to the most recent 2013-2014 National Panhellenic Council annual report, sorority women from across the nation raised over $5.7 million for philanthropies and reported nearly 1 million hours of community service in the last academic year alone.

The year I was social chair I got the opportunity to plan and coordinate all events that were hosted by my sorority. This job taught me hard work, organization skills, and most importantly safety precautions. The common misconception is that Greeks not only party, but these parties are destructive and dangerous environments. On the contrary, social events hosted by greek life have been found to be safer than parties off campus. The University is very involved with these functions to ensure the safest environment possible for those in attendance. There is a ton of behind the scenes work that goes into these parties such as, presenting an agenda to the university, allocating a team of risk management within the sorority, and hiring university police to safeguard the party. 

I love being Greek!! Personally, my favorite part of Greek life is the people I've met through it and through the functions and parties Greek life hosts. I never would have met or talked to so many girls in my chapter had I not joined or been involved in my sorority. I've grown so much as a person already through this amazing opportunity and I wouldn't change my decision for the world. 

Going Greek is not just good is GREAT! When you get down to the bottom of it, being Greek is something amazing and everyone should be able to say they are proud of their letters. I try to encourage everyone I know to try out Greek life, go Greek!

Written by Guest Writer, Whitney Rivers; Edited by UNA Panhellenic 

Monday, March 23, 2015

Be-YOU-tiful {Confidence}

As a fellow member of the female population, I am here to be the first one to tell you that I have, and still, struggle with feeling confident in who I am. I doubt and discredit myself daily. Confidence comes in ups and downs. Some days it seems like I just don't have it in me to accomplish my goals, reach my dreams, or even make it through the day. While other days, with the right outfit and a good hair day, I feel like Beyonce..... Can anyone relate?


See, the thing is, most of us girls measure our self-worth by comparing ourselves to other people. Whether she is more successful, smarter, prettier, has a better personality, has a "perfect" relationship, gets more likes on social media, goes to a "better" school, and the list could go on for days. We discredit ourself: our own abilities, ideas, talents, passions... the things that makes us who we are. Our own individuality. It is so incredibly easy to feel like we don't measure up. I know personally this has always been a struggle for me. "Comparison is the thief of joy". True statement. But comparison is also the thief of confidence, self-worth, and ultimately, individuality. 

The problem is that we base our own worth off of the approval of other people. Even if we don't like to admit it. We post a picture on Instagram and don't feel good about ourselves unless we get at least 100 likes... and we scroll through the "likers" ten times to see who approves of it. Filter, edit, crop. We take and retake a picture because we feel ugly and wouldn't dare let someone see us on social media when our faces are bare and hair is a mess. 


But, in reality, our individuality is beautiful. Being unique is an adventure. It makes life interesting and exciting. Different goals, passions, talents, and ideas are useful and absolutely necessary. Our differences makes us who we are and we should embrace them and learn to {l o v e} ourselves rather than beat ourselves up. 


This post is for everyone who is struggling with not feeling good enough. I know it's hard when we constantly compare ourselves to others and lose sight of the fact that we were created for a purpose. A purpose that is part of a greater picture we might not even understand at this twenty-something inbetween stage of our lives. We have different qualities and quirks and they make us uniquely and individually beautiful. 

Embrace you. Embrace the fact that your hair curls at the ends and your thighs touch. Embrace the size of your waist and the number on the scale. Loving yourself is the most freeing and beautiful thing you can ever do. 


Because no one can be a better you. No one has been through the exact struggles that you have and no one can fulfill the plan of your life except you! At the end of the day all you have is yourself. When you lie down to go to sleep and your thoughts race, remind yourself that you are the person that you are for a reason. You are on this planet for a {u n i q u e} purpose and that is an amazing thing. Believe in yourself because you are more beautiful than you believe, smarter than you think, and stronger than you.

Post Written by Guest Blogger, Summer Richardson; Edited by UNA Panhellenic